Some ways I'm thinking of to increase my happy, stress free moments are -
I find that alot of them have to do with doing something with or for others..........connecting to others in some way through the heart gives me joy and happiness.
1. Spend a little bit of time everyday doing a little something for someone else. Right now what comes to mind is making some small gifts for different people for Diwali, just small little gifts - could be vases, pencil holders, a notebook or even a scarf or handpainted bag. Learn to make small little items and even paint some items - this will be doing that something that i enjoy doing - without ANY CARE of taking it anywhere.
Fire point - I have to remember that my parents are going to definately see it in terms of doing it as a career or making money from it. I need to remember, I am doing this as a hobby.........making little gifts for others, something i've always loved to do.
2. As I'm working on this 'doing something for others' I could think of other ways of doing things I really love for others. Again, this is not from the monetary point of view at all, this is just doing something nice for others. I could think of something like learning chocolate making and make chocolates to give people on their birthdays or if they do something special. Here i could even think of seeing if there is some NGO that does something interesting with people that I could help with. This could be that something 'HAPPY'........not for money.
3. Maybe look at giving children tuitions....could be math or english.........again it is something that I can do with others.
4. Spending some time singing and finding songs I really love.........their words etc. Starting to really understand and appreciate music - different kinds of geners, classical etc in my free time.
Listening to music
5. Working on feeding my body healthy food. I find this is also something that reduces my stress levels and makes me feel more at ease. I know that i cannot expect anyone else to do this for me now so I have to work on this.
I find that alot of them have to do with doing something with or for others..........connecting to others in some way through the heart gives me joy and happiness.
1. Spend a little bit of time everyday doing a little something for someone else. Right now what comes to mind is making some small gifts for different people for Diwali, just small little gifts - could be vases, pencil holders, a notebook or even a scarf or handpainted bag. Learn to make small little items and even paint some items - this will be doing that something that i enjoy doing - without ANY CARE of taking it anywhere.
Fire point - I have to remember that my parents are going to definately see it in terms of doing it as a career or making money from it. I need to remember, I am doing this as a hobby.........making little gifts for others, something i've always loved to do.
2. As I'm working on this 'doing something for others' I could think of other ways of doing things I really love for others. Again, this is not from the monetary point of view at all, this is just doing something nice for others. I could think of something like learning chocolate making and make chocolates to give people on their birthdays or if they do something special. Here i could even think of seeing if there is some NGO that does something interesting with people that I could help with. This could be that something 'HAPPY'........not for money.
3. Maybe look at giving children tuitions....could be math or english.........again it is something that I can do with others.
4. Spending some time singing and finding songs I really love.........their words etc. Starting to really understand and appreciate music - different kinds of geners, classical etc in my free time.
Listening to music
5. Working on feeding my body healthy food. I find this is also something that reduces my stress levels and makes me feel more at ease. I know that i cannot expect anyone else to do this for me now so I have to work on this.